Not how good a person you are — the habits that build and sustain a relationship. The final eight questions look at self-disclosure, repair after a fight, checking what your partner needs, saying no, handling your own anxiety, respecting their separate life, keeping attention alive, and learning from your past. It's scaled so 50 is the average, so 55 reads as slightly above average.

No. MBTI® is a trademark of The Myers-Briggs Company and 16Personalities belongs to NERIS Analytics; this quiz is unaffiliated with either. It takes the widely used four-letter indicators, writes its own questions for a romantic context, and every type name here is original to this quiz. Your result may not match an official MBTI® assessment.

They differ in whether you can change them. Your type is the shape of how you love; no shape is better than another. The score is skill, so it rises when you actually start doing the things you didn't pick in the last eight questions. Type decides who fits you. Score decides whether it lasts.

No. A low score is usually unprocessed experience rather than a lack of ability. If you picked "can't say no", "the anxiety shows" or "haven't looked back", changing that one thing moves the number a long way. The paid section gives you the specific move for your type.

28 questions, about five minutes. The first 20 determine your 16-type love style and the last 8 measure your love score. Both the type and the score are free to see.